Women In Hookup Culture

In west society, especially in university campus, hookup is a hot word nowadays. Hookup is the most common basic meaning about sexual contact, kissing and hugging to making love, with varying degrees of contact included. A hook up with someone can be one-off or long-term. Also it’s fine to have one night hookup with only one person or with different people at the same time. People love to talk about hook up culture, it becomes a veil where people can discuss and share sexual experiences without revealing specific events and exact details. This conventional expression relieves people's responsibility, social pressure and bad reputation when they engage in intimate behavior with others.

Since ancient times, polygamy is considered normal. While, fling of women will be strongly condemned. As for women who have always been in a disadvantaged position, one night culture reflect the liberation of women from another side. In fact, dual standards in sexual activity should be changed, because such double standards lead men to disrespect their female sexual partner. Nowadays, although people are generally open-minded, the double standards still exist. Especially about sex, double standards mean that women are more negatively rated if they have premarital sex or have sex with someone other than a regular partner.

However, women are ushering in sexual liberation now. We can be the same as boys to enjoy the process of having sex.In my opinion, every girl should has a strong heart that is more capable of ignoring the secular vision. In the past , as we all know, men and women get married because they need each other. For example, women didn’t have job and economic opportunities. While, men didn’t cook. Today, more and more women can take complete charge. Women don’t need the drag on their career or life like husband or children. Of course, as women started getting equal pay at work and making more money, we want to be equal in the relationship.

Typically, women in their 20s and college are more interested in hookup. Today, many women say they are devoted to study and work, so don’t want boyfriends. But they also like sex so they have friends with benefits, or they just meet and hook up. Instead of calling this behavior as one night stand, most women like call it “hook up”. The reason is that one night stand sound like did something wrong. In the view of modern women, they no longer regard their emotional problems as a matter of great importance. They are more devoted to the prosperous cause than to the vigorous love. At the same time, cultural environment has changed, women are breaking through stereotypes and pursuing their own values. However, nobody could definitely say that you can’t meet your right person when you hookup. Hookup just give a chance to get to know each other, after one night dating and maybe you are willing to establish stable relationship with the guy.